In a post above I talked about how women conveniently use tactics to shame a man who decides to wear a thong using the sexuality card, women hate having their attention taken away and sometimes I think they feel jealous especially if the man looks better than them in a thong. They are the first to demand equality but only when it is to their benefit, they use the double standard when they do not agree with your tastes in this case of wearing a thong. The way you handled that women on IG was masterful, I remember that in the 80’s the only thing I saw wearing a thong were the ones you mention and I add one, the strippers. We must start to ignore and not let them dictate to us what we can wear and what we cannot because they wear it and no one hinders them with prejudices, that is why my motto in this forum is, if women can wear a thong, men can too.
Please remember that people of all genders are welcome to participate in this forum. Let’s not turn this into the He-Man Woman-Haters’ Club. Sharing personal experiences is fine, but please avoid making generalizations.
It is not my intention to establish any conflict between genders, on the contrary, I like the topics to be opened in a respectful way for everyone without distinction, I just want to establish the real stigmas that men who decide to wear a thong face on behalf of women because I have heard it, I have seen it and I have personally experienced it and not with a thong but with a simple Speedo, here Timthongman indicated his experience on IG and that is just proof of the real prejudice that exists and how they automatically define your sexuality simply by wearing a thong. Also in another previous post I clarified that not everyone thinks like that and accepts their partners who wear a thong although they are very few. If we want men to be allowed to wear thongs freely, it’s not enough to just go to the beach and show off. We have to establish in everyone’s mind that we also have the right because believe me there are many men out there who want to take the step but don’t dare for fear of being judged or having their sexuality questioned. It gets to the point that some hide it from their partners, something that, in my opinion, shouldn’t happen.
Again, it’s not my intention to offend or create conflict. I’m just stating the facts, the realities, and my sincere opinion.
On women’s defense, many also enjoy seeing men in thongs or speedos. Not all of them say it out loud or admit it.
I realized this 10 years ago when I was in Spain, went for a run and then stroll along the beach just in my thong during the morning. Beach was pretty much deserted apart from 2 mothers with their kids playing in the sand (English speaking). As I walked past they noticed what I was wearing and after some silence they said amongst themselves that they admire the confidence and they wish guys back home were this confident wearing such swimwear style.
Since then, over the years, I kept noticing the looks of women not to be bad thing but sort of envy maybe, that their partners don’t look this good and are not this confident to wear thongs or skimpy speedos I’m wearing when thongs push it too much. I’ve been photographed many times as I walked down the beach, out for the run (not in thongs, but very narrow shorts), or just sunning my buns out. I’m sure that 99.9% times it’s not for posting on Facebook and shaming my choice of swimwear (or at least did not find any posts yet ) but to freeze the moment and have a better look at the guy they have seen.
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