Thought it might be fun to start a thread focused on couples. Wife and I are avid thong wearers (underwear and swimwear) who would love to talk with / meet other couples.
A bit about us:
We’re in our late 30’s with two kids. We live on the central East Coast of Florida but travel around a lot for long weekends. We have been enjoying thongs together for about 20 years now and both have enough to fill a dresser. We enjoy swimming, boating, traveling and most other things outdoors. We also like hanging out with friends, having some drinks, playing games, etc. We visit nude resorts and beaches when we can find a sitter but we’d love to find other couples who have a passion for thongs and other fun / skimpy clothing. I actually enjoy being in places where I am comfortable in a thong more than nude. Just something more exciting about it. Overall we’re just a normal and fun couple who have a secret passion for fun clothing.
If this sounds like any of you, drop a line and share a bit about yourselves. Maybe we can meet some new friends.
My GF has worn thongs since I met her 15 years ago. I started wearing them 4-5 years ago. We wear them because they’re the right tool for the job, not because we’re passionate defenders of the realm. Most of the places we travel, thong/topless is the usual beach attire for women so it’s really no big deal; she honestly feels somewhat annoyed in the US when she has to wear a swimsuit top.
Hey that’s a perfectly understandable point of view. They definitely are the most practical, comfortable, and supportive underwear/swimwear independent of also being fun and exciting for us. My wife too goes topless when it’s legal so I fully support your goal!
Hey there Matt- we live in St Petersburg over here on the west coast and we, my wife and I have recently discovered the excitement of wearing thongs at the public beach. We are nudists at heart but there is something unique in the feeling of pushing the limits a bit in public.
We have introduced the idea of a beach get together August 15th at Ft DeSoto park/beach and a few singles and a few couples have replied. Maybe you would want to put it on your calendar? Strength in numbers, right?!
Hey! Yeah I actually am on that thread and we’re going to try and make it on the 15th. Your suggestion on the fort post was really what made me think to start a couples thread. Have people tell a bit about themselves and see if any friendships can be made between like minded couples. We’re looking forward to heading over there though and are about 80% certain we can make it work that day.
Met my ex-gf at the beach, it didn’t work out, but met plenty of couples who like small swimwear. I always thought it was cool to see/meet thong couples. Typically I see a lot of ladies who thong together and one guy in board shorts. I once heard a lady ask her man if he would wear a thong, his response was “Hell no”.
I don’t have a partner that enjoys thongs, but I do have a friend that I hang out at the beach with very often that has fallen in love with her thong bikinis. Just the other day she was saying how much she loved her tan line on her butt and how sexy it looked. Now she wants more thong bikinis cut just like the ones she has.
Over the years I’ve seen many couples, her in a thong bikini and him in board shorts. Quite often I’ve heard how she wished he would wear something like I am wearing. Or, I’d hear about how great my confidence is or how great I “Rock” my thong. One man told me: “you know you got it going on!” with a big smile and high five. I’ve also heard after she made a comment about him wearing something like I do, how he would never wear that. The look of disappointment on her face was clear. He didn’t pick up on it. Too bad for him.
I wish it were more accepted by guys. It’s a much more practical choice for swimming, tanning, hitting the beach, etc. It’s an old stigma that just doesn’t make sense to me. Some guys are so fragile that you can cut a piece of fabric in a certain shape and make them uncomfortable. Wife rocks hers all the time but because of the stigma I am admittingly mindful of who I do it around and who knows. I am not helping the situation I know but also not trying to be “that guy” lol
My wife and I are very similar in that we both love wearing minimal swimwear whenever we can. We wear thongs exclusively in our hot tub and pool. Unfortunately, we don’t live near any thong friendly beaches where I feel comfortable wearing one. We do travel when we get the chance and are hoping to get to Fort De Soto sometime soon. Trying to decide on there or Galveston for our late August trip. Leaning towards Galveston though since we can drive there and pack our chairs, cooler, beach cart, etc.
When we’re on vacation, my wife and I are all about wearing next to nothing. At those adults-only resorts we hit up, she rocks these body-hugging mini dresses that show off her curves with plenty of cleavage, plus some see-through numbers that give everyone a peek at her thong line. She has me in my tightest, almost-transparent speedos, while she’s strutting around in micro g-strings that put that perfect ass on full display. We turn heads everywhere we go. We love the vibe at relaxed beaches, whether they’re busy or empty. We enjoy the privacy nature gives us at some spots, but we also enjoy showing off our bodies, especially hers. Her extreme tiny swimsuits leave nothing to the imagination, and it’s great!
That is awesome! I too love when others look at my wife though I don’t share the same confidence lol. She will do the same with tight and/or nearly transparent clothing with a nice thong line underneath. One of our favorite things to do when we go to places like that.
Completely agree, it’s nice to see some people admiring my wife’s curves. I think it reminds me how lucky I am… and I think that’s part of the fun of wearing thongs or sexy swimsuits, the opportunity to reinforce your own self-confidence
I have a question for the thong-wearing couples here. How were you able to convince your significant other to wear thongs in public? All the women I have been with wore thongs as underwear, but they were not too keen on wearing them as swimwear. They also tolerated my thong-wearing in public, but they were not super supportive.
I think it just depends on the person. My wife took no convincing at all. She’ll wear thong/ gstring swimsuits around friends, family, to the beach, pools, etc. She also has no problem going to nude beaches or resorts though either. Not all are going to be feel the same about it. To my wife and I, it’s just skin.
Hey man! I don’t think this is about “convincing” your partner - that has to come from her eventually. In my opinion, it’s more about sharing what you find attractive and seeing if she gets into it too. Complimenting her and saying how good she looks in certain outfits or swimwear will boost her confidence and help her get more comfortable, but ultimately it’s her decision.
Mi wife started with those cheeky Brazilian cuts, then she dipped her toes into thongs, and now? Now she struts around in public 90% of the time in micro g-strings - some with strings so sheer it’s like a beautiful secret between us. Did she just suddenly decide to bless every beach with her glorious, practically-bare ass? No way! It’s been a slow, teasing journey that she’s savored every step of. And now? She gets a thrill from the glances, the double-takes, the compliments, when people check out her glutes at the beach.. and that confidence just makes her want to push the boundary a little more each time.
So share what you’d like to see, but let her decide how far she’s comfortable going, while you both enjoy the journey together
I mean, there’s convincing and there’s encouraging, right? If you have to arm-twist your partner into this, I dunno if that feels “right” to me.
A better strategy is to go someplace where it’s common practice. My GF has worn thongs since I met her, but it took two trips, one to Spain and one to the French Caribbean 10-12 years ago, for her to start going topless as a matter of course. She didn’t need to be “convinced”, she just needed to feel comfortable.
And I forgot to mention something: this works both ways. My wife has also let me know how she likes to see me. For example, she doesn’t like thongs on me - that’s why I don’t wear them. She tells me that short, tight square-cut Speedo-style shorts look better on me and are more flattering to me. In the end, we both agreed that we dress first to please ourselves but at the same time to please each other
