My sense is that you should probably cover up to go to the bar, especially if you plan on sitting down. There are people who would be uncomfortable or unhygenic if you remained in your thong.
Going to the toilet/washroom, I think you don’t need to cover up, as long as it is connected to the pool area.
Yeah definitely if I was going to sit down. But in my mind that’s not how it would go. I’d just be going to get a drink then back to my beach chair with my towel already on my beach chair.
For cleanliness, I definitely prefer to have something under me. My skin is also very sensitive so I would never sit on something without a towel (edge of a pool might be an exception). But if I was going to sit at a beach bar I don’t think I would wear shorts preferably. I’d prefer to bring a clean towel and sit on that.
I recently saw a woman wearing a swim thong sitting on a chair at a bar on a beach. That surprised me. It’s perhaps a bit unclean. She wasn’t sitting on a towel.
I typical tie a towel around my waist like a sarong and I allow one leg through the slit. I’m (with humility) quite muscular so my physique allows me to get away with more feminine type cover up solutions.
I walked around once with a white thong underneath crochet short shorts that were clearly see through but nobody has ever said anything or mocked me (not that I would care).
Carrying yourself with calm confidence is the secret sauce to wearing what you want. I think when other males have seen me, they initially learn that thongs are a thing for dudes or they wished they had the confidence to wear such a daring suit. Read the room and if you can get away with just rocking the thong, go that route. I’ve walked an entire resort in just a thong because I was heading to the beach or pool and my thong happens to be a swimsuit. Cover it up if you feel like it with something that’s intentional that you’re covering your thong out of respect for your surroundings. But once at the pool, enjoy yourself. People really don’t care.
I use a half pareo tied around the hips. That provides enough cover for g-string wearers. Also proper coverage while sitting (basic nudist etiquette). I have them 12” and 18” wide but find that 12” is just too short for anything but walking around. Also, fabric choice determines degree of translucency – you can go from totally opaque or almost completely see-thru depending on how much you want to reveal.
Agree. And at the beach, up to the showers as well. I avoid anything that might be construed as “parading” around. I don’t want to be that guy who causes a complaint that then causes “the management” to crack down on everyone, it’s not worth it.
I think it depends on the specific pool/resort/etc. I understand the sitting down thing and if I were to do that I’d throw on whatever coverup I used to get from the room to the pool. But for me it’s usually a matter of going to the bar, getting a drink and returning to the pool or beach. In that case I don’t put on a coverup. Same with going to the restroom unless for some reason it involved going through a lobby or something like that. That being said, if at a more adult oriented place, my coverup usually consists of fairly see-thru shorts (the split side runner shorts from Skinz). If I need a bit more modesty I usually wear some squarecut shorts as a coverup (in some cases I have ones that match to certain thongs or gstrings).
I completely agree about not being seen as “parading around”. I don’t think that would/should be anyone’s intention. But there could be a fine line between parading around, being comfortable with your swimwear choice and not be seen as perhaps “too timid”. People might see it as odd if a guy is wearing a thong swimsuit and covers up anytime he goes anywhere.
You spotted the reason I put “parading” in quotes.
There’s a line between “parading around” and “going about your business,” but to me it’s gray and fuzzy, not bright and clear. Walking to and from the water is obviously fine. It took me a 1-2 summers to decide that the outdoor showers are ok, too; all the women are wearing thongs there, so me too. The rest room, I pull on my board shorts, it feels too “indoors”. I was going to run the experiment at the Herring Cove food shack (women in thongs there, too), but for some reason it was closed last summer.
I pretty much only wear thongs/bikinis to the beach. The whole beach is fair game. If I leave, I either wear jeans over it or a towel at the waist. I havent worn a pair of shorts to the beach in over 10 years as either swimwear or outerwear.
Depending on the beach, sometimes I leave with no coverup. Just a thong and tee shirt. At least until i am dry.
@AZThonger same for me. Walking around I’ll just wear my suit. If I’m going to sit down at the bar I have a pairs of split shorts similar to the Skinzwear shorts and certainly cover up if I have to go back inside a resort or other building.
On holydays we always go to the smaller apartment complexes. There I always walk around in just my thong when walking from the apartment to the pool and vice versa. And, of course, when I am in and around the pool and poolbar area.