The closest I’ve ever come to an existential crisis was sitting ass down in a thong bikini while Rio’s ocean water washed over me. The crisis was a long-time coming, the thong was a compromise, and the waves were convenient for hiding both.
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https://www.racked.com/2016/5/13/11672090/brazilian-bikini-thong-shopping
Great article. She just clarified what anyone thinks on any beach. No one cares what others are wearing.
Build up confidence anyway you can. You are doing this for yourself. Plus I imagine being around others in small swimwear helps. I want to try the beaches in Ft. Lauderdale and South Beach.
I remember my first thong experience too … lots of anxiety. Took several trips to the beach to get over it, especially as a male. What I’ve learned … Most people don’t care. Those who do are battling their own issues. When confronted I’m polite but not apologetic. After they’ve said their piece, I tell them, “I hope you have a great day at the beach” and then stop engaging. I’ve never had an issue beyond that. I also only thong where it’s legal (not always where it’s 100% accepted).